if the instrument can't actually do a "dal/al niente" then it is pointless to indicate it.
another well-understood way of notating the effect, however, is to place a tiny o at the point of hairpin. o< >o
it should be touching the actual hairpin, be part of that hairpin, visually.
if you really want "from/to as soft as you can possibly play" then you could also simply use ppp.
That's an unusually soft dynamic, and it would be well understood by the conductor as meaning the same thing as niente.
To the best of my knowledge, the only instruments in the orchestra truly capable of playing al/dal niente are flute, clarinet, and strings. The method of sound production dictates the physical ability of creating the effect.
Double reeds require a certain amount of pressure before the reed starts to react and vibrate. They can play incredibly softly, but the effect won't be as smooth as it would be, for example, on a clarinet.
Brass instruments have a more or less similar issue: the lips must create a vibration that causes the column of air in the instrument to vibrate.
so the first thing would be to orchestrate VERY carefully.
you can layer the instrumental entrances (ie: strings, flute clarinet, then other woodwinds, then brass. and the inverse for a diminuendo).